Today, I would like to address the misconception of Quiet vs. Shy.
Am I the only one that doesn't like it when people call you shy? I mean, some people are shy, yes. That's okay! But I am not shy. Quiet sometimes. But not shy. There is a difference.
I dedicate this post to all those like me! haha
Let's consult the dictionary.....
The dictionaries definition of Shy is....
1. Bashful; retiring.
2. Easily frightened away. timid.
3. Suspicious; distrustful.
4. Reluctant; wary.
Yeah. See? I'm not shy.
Now, the dictionaries definition of Quiet......
- Restrained in speech, manner, etc.; saying little
- Free from disturbance or tumult; tranquil; peaceful: a quiet life.
Hah! It all makes sense now, right?
Honestly, I don't mind being quiet. I like listening, I feel like you learn and gain SO much more when you don't talk as much. I feels much more connected to the earth, and myself when I don't talk as much. I like quiet.
The world is SO SO SO noisy!
But let's face it, I'm not shy, just quiet by choice. I'm a super crazy person. But I choose to be quiet sometimes. The world seems so much more peaceful when you're quiet.
Sometimes I am a little shy, but I'm usually not.
I'm done ranting now. :)
Have a beautiful day! Life is good. :)
love, Wesleigh
Haha, that was the furthest thing from a rant, Wes. ;) Well, maybe not the FURTHEST, but pretty close... *cough* Anyways. :) I appreciate this post. I'm the same way. ^_^ I do like being quiet. :)
ReplyDeleteKeep rockin' the blog! You're awesome!
~Chip
Oh good, I'm glad. We should start a club ;) *cough* Thanks!! You're the bestest :)
DeleteI also appreciate this post. xD Thank you for pointing out the difference....and yeah...I'm probably louder than you, but I'm still fairly quiet..... but not shy. I used to be shy. But not anymore. :D Great post, love! <3
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Yeah...except when I break out my haka skills...then....ya know ;) haha But yeah, you're definitely not shy. Thanks! Love <3
DeleteHehehe. This makes me half smile, a bit. It's ridiculous how much I can relate! 'TIS A BEAUTIFUL DAY. Thank you for this, lovely, lovely you.
ReplyDeleteOhh by the way: have you taken the Meyers Briggs personality test? It's super fascinating. Anyway, carry on.
ReplyDeletehaha, Thanks Alexandra! Yeah! I have. I really like the 16 personalities too. It's so interesting. :)
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